You feel that this person – the one who is necessary to you. He is a man of your dream, and all your thoughts only of it. But whether he feels the same? Whether thinks hourly only of you? If is not present, then it is easy to correct it. After all, women are created to dement men.
Instruction
1. Men like to feel like conquerors. Someone speaks – hunters, but you not production, and the woman whom it is necessary to try to obtain. Even, if you it is crazy about it – get it together. You should not be too much. Let him look for opportunities to see you, to interest you in something unusual. Let him feel that it could distract you from some urgent matters, sustain the competition to someone or something. Even, if for you it do not care more important now, than to hypnotize phone, waiting for its call, let for it it will be a secret. Give it feeling of a victory, it will raise its self-assessment and "will attach" to you, as to a source of this exciting feeling. But to you it is not necessary and to rush to other extreme, without showing any initiative in communication – if you strictly follow the rule "the girl never calls the first", he can begin to doubt that it is interesting to you.
2. Show it that you have other interesting and rich life – friends, work, a hobby. If he can call and ask at any time "What are you doing?" and to hear: "Nothing, I wait for you", he will think that you are interesting to nobody and are not keen. Why to him to think – "And what she is busy now with?", if he and so knows it? Do not repeat a mistake of many girls seeking "to merge" completely the life with life of the elect, you do not seek to acquaint the man with all the girlfriends, do not invite to hen parties and meetings with schoolmates, do not demand to accompany you during shopping. Let your life rage not only when it is near, but also in itself. A sit-round gathering with friends, club of learning Spanish, sport, occupations ballroom dances – you should not refuse all this for the sake of love. Otherwise it is possible that soon your darling will find out that with you it becomes dullish.
3. Flirt with it. Do not think that if you have already a novel, then time for coquetry passed. Became interested in you and he fell in love with you such – easy, a little mysterious, accidentally touching his hand and escaping. Constant flirtation will not allow your relations to turn into a routine and will "stir" its interest.
4. You appreciate what it does for you. If the man knows to what delight you came from its last surprise. If you showed it as are glad to its gift. If you, at its presence, quote his jokes, clever thoughts and tell someone about what surprising courageous acts he makes for the sake of you, he will enjoy "minutes of fame" and to think constantly still to make for the sake of you.
5. Become it not only the mistress, but the friend and the adviser. For this purpose is necessary not so much. Listen more to about what he speaks, but do not tell about yourself in the smallest details, do not retell all details of the lived day (especially as just usually "turn to such monologues of the man a deaf ear"). Try to penetrate into difficult situations in his life, try to support him. Even if its work is connected with any hi-tech things, at this work around him there are people and, certainly, they have certain relationship there. Who better than women understands the relations? Unostentatiously give to it advice and soon he will get used that you became a part of his life and in it and will discuss willingly with you the working moments.
6. Leave almost inaudible signs of your presence at his life. It is not necessary to bring to it to the house a brush, slippers, kilograms of cosmetics and a favourite dressing gown. It will apprehend it as infringement of its freedom and personal space rather. And here to forget a hairpin near a bed, and in the bathroom a tube with lipstick – it is possible. As well as to present it a ridiculous charm for keys, the convenient daily log or a mug with an amusing inscription – they unostentatiously will remind him of you constantly, every time when he sees these things.
7. Remind of yourself – and at the same time be unpredictable. If you infinitely send it the same sms that you love it and will miss – it will please first, and then will begin to be perceived as something ordinary. Do surprises. If you suddenly send it to e-mail the picture from an erotic photoshoot – he will remember. If you write it something ridiculous to lighten the mood before the unlucky working day – will estimate. From time to time leave amusing notes in its pockets, put a small souvenir under a pillow, send the paper letter or a card … everything what there will be enough imagination for. Do not adhere to the accurate schedule – and as a result he will always wait from you for surprises.
8. Give to it insignificant reasons for jealousy. Such that he understood that he is jealous you absolutely in vain, but could do nothing with itself. Smile to some unfamiliar man, and in a few minutes comment that he only amused you with an extravagant t-shirt or a scandalous hairstyle. Appear with a bouquet of magnificent flowers and only after a while tell casually that your employee has birthday tomorrow, and you bought a bouquet from all collective in advance. Go to a corporate holiday in a magnificent sexual dress, having shown to your elect as you are stunning. Tell that this party – for a long time, and then leave it a bit earlier and go to it. Let him think "this woman dements me", but never – "she precisely changes me".
9. And how sex? For certain you precisely know how to bring it and yourself the maximum pleasure. And, if you want to attach even more strong to yourself the man, try at the moment when it reaches a point of the highest pleasure, to caress it strictly in a certain way. For example, to stroke a hip, to be run by fingers on a back, to tousle hair. Soon he will get used and unconsciously will begin to perceive this gesture as an integral part of an orgasm – and without your, your caress it will lack something.