Renewal of relations after parting or a quarrel - quite difficult process, and sometimes and just insuperable barrier to couple. And before deciding on this act, weigh all pros and cons, properly think and be convinced that you need actually it.
Instruction
1. Analyze a situation. Such points as duration of your relations, their quality and also the reasons for which you left are important here. If guilty of your parting became the young man, then you have to be sure that he understood the mistake and regrets the act. If it occurred through your fault, then you should win forgiveness and trust of your guy, to convince him that your feelings still in force.
2. Arrive according to a situation which developed. If you became the reason of a gap, then first of all it is necessary to apologize to the beloved, to show as required the respect for it. If the guy is guilty, let know that his act affected you, adhere to a certain distance in the relations. Only do not overdo not to seem too arrogant. Try force it to apologize and realize the mistake.
3. Feelings are checked by distance. Make so that he missed you. Also you remember that anyway, life does not come to an end, and the world did not agree a wedge on it one even if you very strongly love it. Having spent some time separately, each of you will be able to analyze better a situation, to draw some conclusions.
4. Of you also importunate calls and SMS messages to the guy will be inappropriate. Do not show him that you depend on it, instantly responding to its messages and calls. Show the independence.
5. In the course of reconciliation do not go on ridiculous, children's acts, throwing various notes or using the help of the third party. Behave in an adult way. Just find suitable time, a situation and seriously discuss a problem.
6. Be ready to everything. Perhaps, from the first it will not be possible to reach reconciliation and to renew the relations. Most likely, your beloved will agree to any changes not at once. Do not take offense if its reaction is quite categorical and negative. Try to understand better what feelings stand behind his emotions. And if after a while he wants to talk to you again, do not remember to him last negative conversation.