There took place the wedding, all are happy. But suddenly it becomes clear, the woman does not respect the husband at all, and prior to a wedding was just realized. It should not be! How to improve situation?
Instruction
1. It is impossible to allow to itself negligence, otherwise you for the rest of life will remain a henpecked. The wife will not appreciate you, kind of you did not try.
2. It is necessary to understand why so it turned out. What reasons of such behavior of your beloved. Perhaps, the problem is in her family. Perhaps, such relations - norm at her parents. If the daughter observes all the time how the father caves in under mother, she takes such relations as a basis. And, of course, will try to build the family in the same way. She just is not able in a different way. During the courting period such moments cannot almost be foreseen. If the girl seeks to marry, she will pretend to be, try to make everything if only darling made the proposal. And only after the wedding all nuances will come up outside.
3. Time you did not get to the core of the wife prior to a wedding, it is necessary to be engaged in her education after the wedding. It will be necessary to explain that the main pledge of family happiness - respect between spouses. It is necessary to bring her home that the wedding is not the finish that ahead all life, and now it is necessary to make every effort that this life was happy. Remember that in the absence of respect between spouses the marriage is doomed.
4. You should not give to the wife all the money. Many men act this way to decline all responsibility in material questions of family and in household aspects. But then it is necessary to ask money for any trifle from the wife. Thus the superiority in family can pass to the woman, she manages family finance. Even if you do not want to participate in formation of the family budget, you should retain a certain sum that there was pocket money.
5. Do not allow the wife to raise the voice, to call you. Explain to her that it is categorically unacceptable for you and that you will not live with the woman allowing such behavior.
6. At some women the feeling of respect for the husband vanishes when she finds treason. They try to create around themselves an indifference aura, but cannot forget about an event, of course. To return the lost respect, it is necessary to make every effort. Surround it with attention and care and force to believe in your feelings to it again. Perhaps, then your treason gradually will begin to be forgotten.