The working man completely providing the family - the infrequent phenomenon now. It depends on many factors. Education in family since the childhood of the true male qualities, an example of parents and also influence of the spouse in the course of family life - everything plays the role. But any person can be stimulated to search of good work, the main thing is to do it correctly and unostentatiously. It is your beloved husband.
Instruction
1. To give active installation to the man for conscientious, interesting and highly paid work, it is necessary to encourage in every possible way from the first days of family life the husband and to help him at all difficult moments. Never it is necessary to grumble, grumble and reproach the husband with insolvency, lightness. It is impossible to bring into example husbands of the girlfriends allegedly more successful and successful at all.
2. If your husband does not work yet, for example, is in free search after the termination of educational institution, it is necessary to help to find to it work. Worthy work, perspective, in the specialty. Even if compensation at employment is offered low in the beginning, but you consider that the prospect of further career development at this work is, it is necessary to persuade your husband to agree to the offered terms.
3. It is necessary to ask the husband on his work, helping if necessary council. It is also necessary to remind constantly in clear or it is veiled (depending on the circumstances) about advantages of the husband, its value at this work. If the man closed and reticent on character, it is necessary to ask very carefully and moderately persistently him on that, how was your day. But it is not necessary to bother with an excessive talk, and that the husband will become reserved.
4. Always the money earned with the husband needs to rejoice. Even if it is still little money. Concerning the first salary it is desirable to organize a small family celebration. Until the husband completely gets up, the authority and promotion will earn to themselves, it is not necessary to demand to himself gifts and to insist on purchase of too expensive things. It is necessary to wait slightly. At the correct statement of question and the correct behavior of the husband and wife the career development and salary increase will not keep itself waiting. That's when gifts, and purchases will be. Only soft persistence, council, the help and great love it is possible to achieve goals. And the husband will shortly work with pleasure, enthusiasm, to move ahead quickly on a career ladder and to earn decent money.