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It seems still yesterday you were together, shared impressions, made plans for the future and could not live to live without each other minutes, and already today stopped being couple. No matter, what led to a gap, it is necessary to live further, only as? The heartache is too severe, emotions just whip too much and it seems that that this condition of total collapse will never pass.
Three simple steps - how to forget darling?
- The first step is based on ceasing to rub to itself salt in the wound and to live past. Not to dare to become limp, not to feel sorry for itself, for days on end mourning the love. To urgently change scenery, having removed from the environment everything that casts thoughts of darling – her gifts, slippers which are lonely standing in the hall, and other. Not to go to places in which you often were together, not to watch movies about love, not to listen to slow music. Not to remain to one, and on the contrary, to surround itself with people – friends, acquaintances. Parting is an excellent occasion to be engaged in what there was not enough time earlier for. Perhaps, you always wanted to jump with a parachute or to sweep on an elephant, to make alloy on kayaks – it is a high time to make it.
- The second step is in giving vent to the emotions, it is desirable positive. You need to be uttered to someone, to share the problems. Invite on a visit the good friend and sit behind a small bottle. The emotions can give vent if to occupy itself with physical work, to go to chop wood as it was done by Adriano Celentano in the famous movie, or to the gym and it is good to be pumped over there. It is possible to participate in cars races. That who is interested what to do if you cannot forget the person at short notice council will be in that and not to try to make it. It is not necessary to put to itself any certain terms. Just it is necessary to live, without being obsessed with the past and without giving to thoughts even of chance to take control of your mind. Just jam-pack the day events and then you will have no time to remember the love and to long.
- The third step is based on giving a helping hand to the one to whom it is heavier now, than to you. When we help others, the problems kind of pass into the background, and we understand that it is not the end that people live and do not lose courage even in the situations more difficult. Talk to forums, look for those who need support and the help, and you also will not notice how your life will become better, fuller and more joyful.
How it is possible to forget dear person?
Nobody will be able to tell you how many it is required to time to forget darling. At all it occurs individually and happens that on this process years when the old relations fade against the background of new events leave. Those who wants to forget darling forever can advise to act as will prompt him heart. Much are helped by the way providing elimination of an object from a field of vision so it is necessary to replace the residence and to leave far away. To someone on the contrary quickly to forget the person whom you love it is necessary to dodge and cause somehow in itself feeling of hatred to it, keeping ringing at night and remembering all offenses and humiliations.
Anyway strong emotional shocks will not be forgotten, but that's salt that it is worth thanking providence for the fact that such love was in your life that it was not empty and to you will be what to remember in old age. If you want to know how to forget the person in terms of psychology, then to try to understand him both to forgive, and to move further on the road of the destiny. Who knows, can be on turn you already the new love waits?