Life - difficult piece, and, unfortunately, everything not always develops as we want that. Close people leave our life, forcing to feel pain and loss. It is necessary only to move further, without looking back at the past.
Golden rule of partings: not to lose courage
You are crushed, suppressed and killed. You were thrown, and you do not want to live further, thinking of the past, thereby forcing itself to endure minutes of a gap again and again. This procedure will not bring any benefit to you - it will only become the slow poison killing your self-assessment and a positive psychological spirit.
Yes, parting - not the most pleasant stage in life. But it is worth remembering that there are no irreplaceable people, except, of course, parents. Nobody died of the fact that it was thrown. It is important to move further, taking experience from the ended relations, writing down in a peculiar mental instruction what does not need to be done in the long term.
Stop to roar, eat sweet or, what is even worse, to starve, get up from a sofa and look in a mirror. If not to be distracted by bags under eyes, tear-stained eyes and lack of a hairstyle, then you are faced by quite nice girl. Record it at yourself in a brain. After parting, only the pleasant, romantic moments are always remembered. Try to take a detached view of your relations, and you will find the mass of faults to which you just closed eyes. People are big visionaries and quite often attribute missing traits of character to the elects, beginning to believe that they thought up. First of all you need to sober and understand that it not only, and our planet so huge that you will surely meet the man, just time did not come yet.
We sublimate positive energy
Delete this person from the life: you cannot look without tears at its gifts - bring together them in a package and just throw out, his old SMS bring you pain and suffering - stop to re-read them and remove, and together with them his phone number and all data, including the general music and photos. It is desirable to replace also to you the phone number. Do not try to learn something about it. This man for you died. Think up for yourself a peculiar ritual: bury your relations, as well as it is necessary. Mentally present a grave, a fencing, a bench near it, you can even condole, but it is impossible to love a decay. Pay a tribute to the past and you look forward. Take care of the own life. Change image. Diversify in clothes. Take in a habit to leave made up the house. Surely smile: who knows, perhaps, round the corner you will meet the destiny. Remain alone with the mournful thoughts less. Do not become reserved: be in the fresh air more, go out with the friends, visit clubs and different pleasure actions. Meet new people. Little flirtation will remind you that you the young beautiful girl with whom also other guys dream to get acquainted. Fill up free time new hobbies. Long ago wanted to register in a drawing circle, but were too busy in any way? Do not shelve this invention. Dreamed to learn to dance the tango, but your former did not share your desires? Forward to buy ball shoes and on a parquet!