The first love - the most tender, tender and pure feelings. However it seldom happens for the rest of life therefore after parting with dear person it is sometimes difficult to release it and everything to forget.
Having left the first favourite young man, girls want to try to get rid of memoirs forever. But you should not do it. The fact is that the first love is never forgotten. She will always live in your memory and to bear kindness. The only problem which disturbs women is most often connected with the fact that except memory there are zhivy also first feelings. Girls are sure of what except the first guy they never and will fall in love with nobody with, they by hook or by crook try to return the relations.
The first that you need to understand: the broken bowl can be stuck together, here only to drink from it it will not turn out and beautiful it any more will never be. Stop to convince yourself that this person is necessary to you. Most likely, you hammered into the head its need, but if you understand that you it - nothing else as your own obsession, you will be able to release the first love and will begin to learn to live anew.
Sometimes it happens so that after the first romantic relations of the girl meet, leave someone all the time, and understand that that first ball an ideal, and in the world is not present is simple any more guys who could replace it. Understand, irreplaceable people do not exist. Sooner or later you will meet someone who will be better. Perhaps, he will care more for you, to love and protect.
If after your parting with the first love passed several years, and all of you equally dream to return the ex-boyfriend, think that time changes people, and, most likely, you still love that person from the past, however the one whom he was, is not present for a long time. Instead of it there is other man, more adult and, perhaps, even more cruel and rough now.
You do not hold the first feelings. Release them and try to leave in soul only memory.