The love is feeling not always eternal and mutual. Love torments bring us sincere experience which nothing will replace. And each person who wants to feel true love has to be ready to cardiac pain. The melancholy, a warm distemper and confusion of feelings - all this worries the person in love. But there are ways by means of which it is possible to soften blows of undivided feeling, to forget darling and again to enjoy life.
Instruction
1. For a start think whether and the truth you loved this person? Perhaps, it was only self-deception, once again properly consider everything and look what place is taken by this person in your life. Sometimes only it seems to us that we love, and actually, we just very much want to love and be favourite. Think over it.
2. For a start replace number of the phone or remove number of the person who was loved earlier. That on an old habit once again not to take him. Ask friends that at your presence did not remind of it even if he quite often communicates with them.
3. After that remove everything that reminds you of this person. Do not feel sorry for anything, throw out all gifts and photos in which you once were together. Here you will see, it will become at once easier for you.
4. Be not obsessed with this person. Distract or engaged in something interesting what earlier you just did not have time and forces for. Walk more and communicate with people, interesting to you.
5. Devote yourself to dear people. Help parents, sisters and brothers. Find for them a little time and cares. It is the closest and people, dear for you, on all earth.
6. Do not forget to exclude from the life all that casts over you melancholy. Replace movies about love with youth comedies, listen only to cheerful music and read interesting books.
7. Remember that irreplaceable people are not, and the new meeting will become the best means from loneliness. Therefore you do not stay at home at all, attend various actions and meet new people. Pay the attention on people around, perhaps, among them there is your true love.
8. Think of the life and learn a lesson from it. It is important that you understood what happy or unfortunate we do ourselves. And our happiness is only in our hands.
9. And still, try to forget the former love. Forgive all old offenses, wish good luck and release it forever. And open the heart towards to new love.