Unfortunate love … If you are able to find the person to whom it did not happen, then this person will be, without exaggeration, a unique person. At everyone there comes such moment in life when it seems that the world crumbled under the feet. You want – you do not want, and the old love should be forgotten somehow. If you do not know how to you to be How in general to live further and to expel an image of the beloved from the memory, then, perhaps, tips of this article will be useful to you. The main thing that you decided to forget is already the key to success.
Instruction
1. Try to ask for the help the psychologist. No, nobody considers you the madman, suggests to address the psychiatrist. Only to the psychologist who will help you to understand himself and own emotions which will listen and will help to find a solution. The psychologist will surely manage to understand your position and it is correct to assess a situation. You will find the excellent interlocutor who will always listen to you and will console, and, will console very competently. Only if you asked for the help the expert, with him be as much as possible frank, do not conceal anything, do not try to expose yourself in the best or in the worst light. You tell everything as is as you feel. Only in this case you will be able competently to be helped.
2. Begin to communicate with friends more. Try to distract yourself from constant thoughts of former love thus. Remaining alone with itself, the person begins to dig more and more in himself even if he wants to forget, he all the same involuntarily comes back to these unnecessary thoughts.
3. Get rid of everything that can remind you of this person. Remove somewhere far away gifts, things, photos. It is not obligatory to throw out them and to burn. Just remove there from where them it is difficult and the laziness will get once again that they did not loom constantly before eyes.
4. Stop to remember constantly only good. Was also bad, otherwise you would not get into a situation that you should forget the person. Remember what bad was made to you by this person. Only do not try to revenge him for this bad, for certain and you made mistakes too. Just understand that this situation – regularity, but not ridiculous accident. And in general, try to think of all this as little as possible.
5. Find to yourself occupation in which it is possible to steep – work, study, a hobby … You will see, over time you will just stop thinking about the former love.
6. And the best exit in a similar situation is, strangely enough … To fall in love. Yes, rather you will find the person, feelings to whom it will be possible to force out old, rather at you it will turn out to forget former love. So get it together and be just happy!