Unfortunately, even the most ideal couples are not insured from separation. The reasons for this purpose can be various: mutual understanding loss, intervention of other person, objective circumstances, emergence of new interests or treason. Irrespective of the reason, separation often causes the severe pain, especially in case one of partners betrayed. However the traitor you should not despair. It is necessary to forget and start everything with a clean slate. It is not as difficult to make it as it seems.
1. Many people after break in relations try to get rid at once of all things which remind of the former partner. Also do very correctly. You should not feel sorry for either expensive jewelry, or beautiful photos if they hurt. The ceremony of burning of photos, for example, in an ashtray can give improbable relief. It is possible to cry over an ashes handful as a symbol of the died love later. The ceremony will let subconsciousness know that the relations are finished, and it is time to begin to grieve over them. Any grief comes to an end sooner or later, and together with its end also pain leaves. And here if not to take an obvious gap into consideration and to secretly cherish a thought of return of the traitor, pain will not allow to lead normal life still very long time.
2. Expectation until there comes simplification, needs to be brightened up useful leisure. It can be a hobby, work, a travel, communication - everything that can once fill the formed emptiness after leaving of darling. Psychologists often advise to steep in work, but sometimes the usual thing is not capable to distract from sad thoughts. In that case it is necessary to direct all thoughts and efforts to implementation of an old dream. For example, to learn a foreign language or to learn to drive. The main thing that achievement of the goal brought really great pleasure.
3. The dumped girlfriend needs to begin to work on the image. Any depression will not be able and is close "to approach" the beautiful, self-confident lady. The faultless hairstyle, fashionable manicure, equal suntan, a stylish make-up, elegant clothes – all this will allow the girl to feel on rise and to fix eyes of men that for certain will bring it a lot of joy.
4. Understanding of a vyigryshnost of the new situation can become the next stage: freedom gives a set of prospects to start new, perhaps, more interesting and serious relations. The girl should imagine only how there are a lot of compliments, for gifts and romantic appointments her waits ahead, and she at once instead of feeling of bitterness will begin to feel indescribable gratitude in relation to the person who, fortunately, threw it.
5. Changed, full of new hopes, the attractive, mysterious girl it will become simple not to spend time for boring memories of the unworthy person because she will have too busy schedule in which there will hardly be a place for grief and grief.