Sometimes happens so that the woman falls in love with the married man. Their novel can be short, and can drag on also for very long time. As a rule such love does not bring happiness, communication should be hidden carefully, the duality of own situation sometimes exhausts the woman, both are tormented by conscience. Lovers make the decision on a gap. Often in such situation the woman cannot forget the beloved because, according to her, he leaves not from what stopped loving, and only povinuyas to call of duty.
Instruction
1. The heart has a will of its own, but the person therefore is called reasonable that lives not only instincts, but also mind. Try to inspire in yourself: such situation was simply humiliating for you. Even if now not former times, and the word "mistress" does not cause general amicable condemnation any more.
2. Think: you the adult, independent woman, you are for what to fall in love. Otherwise this man would not pay attention to you. So really you will not be able to start the real family, with other man, to become the legal wife, but not the mistress?
3. Try to raise a self-assessment. Analyze the behavior, think what amendments should be introduced in it to be interesting and attractive for an opposite sex. Perhaps, you should change image cardinally: to do new original hair, to update the clothes.
4. There is quite sharp, but effective way to forget the man: to become angry about the former lover. Say, well settled, lived with two women at once. Convince yourself: if he loved you really, would find forces and courage to leave the wife. Time did not leave, so did not love you but only it used.
5. Try to convince yourself of correctness of the made decision and such argument: each excess day spent with the married man reduced your chance to arrange the private life. Over the years, alas, nobody becomes younger and more beautiful not. Therefore do not mourn the past, and begin to look for the person who will fall in love with you really, will make a proposal of marriage. It is quite real.
6. Attend parties, theatrical performances, concerts, you go to bars – there where for certain you will meet a great number of men. Be registered on dating sites.
7. To distract from burdensome thoughts, find to yourself some interesting occupation, a hobby. Try to go to the resort, there for certain there will be men whom you will interest.
8. The short, noncommittal novel, will return you confidence in the attractiveness and a female charm, will help to dismiss former unfortunate love. And who knows, maybe, it will develop into something more serious.