Sometimes in life can happen so that you convicted the soulmate of incorrectness. Of course, it is awful, and it would be necessary to leave, but if you do not want to break off the relations, it is always possible to try to forgive the girlfriend and to forget about treason.
Instruction
1. If you learned about treason of the beloved, but understand that you do not want to release this person from the life, give it the second chance. All of you are people, and for each of you it is peculiar to be mistaken. Learn about the person with whom you were changed by the girl, and think, maybe, he tempted her, deceived, and she is just too flabby. Perhaps, the woman is almost not guilty that she gave in to fleeting feeling, and this person does not cause in her such love what is caused by you.
2. The following step - recognition of the fault. Ask the companion to explain why she acted this way, most likely, she understood the mistake for a long time and regretted deeds. Watch her behavior during the conversation. Nervousness has to cover your beloved: the shivering voice, tears, sweaty palms. If she sincerely asks for you forgiveness, you will be able easily to try to give her the second chance.
3. Find justification of the darling. Think why your girl decided to change you? Perhaps it is not it? Some people in such a way try to draw attention of the partner, to force it to be jealous. Perhaps, you do not pay attention to the soulmate at all, do not show the feelings fully. Perhaps it also interfered with development of your relations.
4. If it became difficult for you to be near this person, live some time separately. Suggest the partner to rent apartment for a month or leave. If you do not live together, you can just temporarily cease to see each other. During this time you will manage to put thoughts in order, everything carefully to consider, calm down and make the only correct decision. Change the attitude to the incident. Convince yourself that treason was only physical contact, and it any more will never repeat. Perceive this case legkomyslenny: well it happened, and happened, the majority of couples pass through it, and in it there is nothing awful.
5. Agree with the girl that for some time you will not argue, swear, sort out the relations. Lead quiet, quiet, measured life. During this time everything is gradually formed, life will come to the ordinary course, and you will understand whether it is worth continuing the relations.
6. You should not become reserved at all, to lead the closed life. Communicate with friends and relatives, behave so as if nothing occurred. It will help you to recover quicker from a shock. Most likely, these simple recommendations will help you to forgive treason of the girl. But be always faithful to the partner whatever occurred.