Treachery of darling can pull the rug and in a moment devastate soul. After a while at heart the offense, anger and desire to revenge settles. Whether there is a place to forgiveness there and whether it is necessary to forgive treachery?
How to forgive treachery of darling?
Only the closest people as to them we turn a back are capable to betray us, without expecting blow. How to forgive treachery of the loved one? First of all, it is necessary to calm down and look at a situation with a sober view. Most likely, the person just was mistaken or followed the tastes of the feelings and emotions, his purpose was not to hurt you. Everyone has weaknesses, and to forgive weak much easier, than angry. Besides, if to speak frankly, in treachery, as well as in treason at least indirectly, but both are guilty. If you did not trust so strongly in the person, did not confer on him responsibility for yourself and the life, his treachery would not be so painful. Both were mistaken, so and the fault lies not only with the traitor, and and with you.
How to forgive meanness and treachery?
It is very difficult to forgive meanness and treachery, and it is connected with the fact that the feeling of the strongest offense and desire to revenge moves you. Revenge will not facilitate a situation because will not reduce your pain in any way.
It is possible to forgive the offender only thanks to the analysis and understanding of the reasons which forced you to betray. Perhaps, the reason lies not on a surface, and you provoked the loved one to arrive quite so. Something in your relations went incorrectly if darling took such measures. Having understood itself it is possible to make a knight's move and to ask forgiveness for those things which forced it to betray for the offender. As a result it will become much easier for you.
How to forgive treachery and to reduce pain?
That it was not so painfully important to understand what for you became the biggest problem: the fact that you were betrayed, or feelings which you at the same time had? Having carefully analyzed a situation, it can turn out that everything occurs in our life in time when it is necessary and even treachery can turn back as a result to you in advantage. The main thing, is weighed to make decisions in a quiet state, not to save in itself offense and not to revenge the person as to it it can be bad too. Any treachery is a signal to reconsidering the relations and to understand itself.