The school is a place where everything occurs for the first time: the first lesson, the first five, friendship and love. But how not easy to take this step - to approach and get acquainted with the pleasant person!
How to get acquainted with the guy at school
Try to learn more about the guy who is pleasant to you. It is very important to have in hands "trumps" by means of which it would be possible to strike up acquaintance with him unostentatiously. Knowing that the guy is clever and well understands the exact sciences, it is possible to ask him about the help. At the same time it is surely possible to offer something in exchange.
For example, if it is your schoolmate, you for certain know about his weaknesses (for example, he badly is given writing of dictations). If the guy is more senior or is younger you, use the information on his hobbies and offer it what can interest him.
After that remind him of yourself more often, but it is unostentatious. As often as possible catch sight to him. For this purpose learn its class timetable and begin to practice "casual meetings", at the same time do not forget to be thrown by couple of phrases. So, for example, in the dining room it is possible to ask "what us for lunch today?" or "you lately constantly help out me what you will advise from edible here?".
However it is important at the same time not to look too importunate. Otherwise you can cause disappointment and irritation in the guy.
In a corridor it is possible to take an interest where there is any office or whether he saw the teacher on English. As option, you can just ask about the help in something again. During such meetings if you feel response, start a conversation with the guy. Discuss with it your general teachers, talk about a recent school action or about the new movie (a concert, etc.). But you do not speak to him at all "tell something". It is one of those questions which nonplus the interlocutor. Take an interest whether there is it on social networks. If yes, you can be added to it as a friend. If any of councils after all did not bring results, think that, perhaps, it is not your person. In that case you should not spend forces for communication continuation. Besides, it is possible that if you cease to show to the guy the interest and will begin to communicate with other young man, he can begin to look for meetings with you.
How to get acquainted with the girl at school
In principle, councils for acquaintance to the guy not strongly differ from acquaintance to the girl. However there are several moments which should be considered to the guy wishing to win the girl's heart. Be active. As a rule, courageous, vigorous guys in an image of "malchisha-bad boy" have much more chances to get acquainted with the girl, than at timid and uncertain "good boy". Be an initiator. It is pleasant to girls when the guy takes everything in hand. The little girl was pleasant - do not quail, safely approach and get acquainted. At school there are a lot of places where it is possible to make it. Except the dining room, a corridor and the gym (assembly hall) you can during a lesson under any pretext cause it from a class and transfer a short note with your phone number, "nickname" in social network and a phrase "I will wait".
Offer the girl the help in lessons which trouble it.
If you are not able to overcome in yourself constraint and nervousness, can find it in social networks and start with it correspondence. However consider that girls usually do not love too persuasive and pessimistic romantics. Try to intrigue her, to attract interest of her. Talk to her about her hobbies or movies which are pleasant to it. Then you can suggest to go to the cinema with it. If in response to your actions you observe only silence and misunderstanding, be not upset. You will surely find that which will appreciate you. Be not afraid to take the first step! Be adjusted on a positive, and everything at you will turn out.