Essentially acquaintance in cafe does not differ from acquaintance in any other place — at movie theater, on the street, in shop. However there are several small cunnings which can facilitate this procedure.
Acquaintance without the company
It should be taken into accountIt should be taken into account that people in cafe feel it is weakened, do not run anywhere and do not hurry therefore it is a little simpler to get acquainted here, than on the street with eternal vanity.
If you noticed the girl interesting to you without the company in cafe, try to draw indirectly its attention — discuss something with the bartender or the waitress, exchange jokes with people at the next tables, make yourself for a while by the center of attention. First, it will attract interest of the girl, will allocate you from the mass of other visitors of cafe, secondly, will make about you an impression of the sociable person.
After that it is possible to approach the girl and just to start a conversation. You should not be rumpled, doubt the forces, to look for some clever subjects to start a conversation. Just greet and begin a conversation on a neutral subject, ask questions (it is desirable what it is impossible to answer in monosyllables), involve the girl in a conversation, give it careful compliments. At the same time surely you look it in the face, do not wander a look, you do not look around. Direct open views cause more trust. Try to invite her to an appointment at once. It is much more reliable than exchange of phone numbers. The similar pressure can intrigue practically any girl. Try to offer her concrete options of an appointment — billiards, club, bowling, cinema, walk in the park and so on, you can ask that was would like by her. Observe balance between persistence and politeness, you should not seem too persuasive. It is possible to invite the girl to an appointment only after you started a conversation, otherwise it looks is simply inappropriate.
What to do if the girl not one?
If the girl interesting to you is in the company of girlfriends, tactics needs to be changed. Always begin communication with her girlfriends, give them compliments, express sympathy, gradually involve the girl interesting to you in communication. If she shows to you interest, surprised with abundance of attention which you pay it to girlfriends, it means that you intrigued her. After that switch attention to it, give well-turned graceful compliments, you start a conversation on neutral subjects. Act further, as in a case with the lonely girl in cafe. Try to pull out the person interesting to you from the company of girlfriends, suggest to walk, ask for suggestions, joke. If you are pleasant to her girlfriends, they will help you to achieve with it an appointment.