Acquaintances in the bus sometimes enter into a stupor even skilled men. The cause is the abundance of people around and often impossibility to count what is the time is for acquaintance, especially, if it is about public transport – an object can leave on any situation. But if time allows, acquaintance to the girl in the bus can become the excellent beginning of the new relations.
Instruction
1. Do not begin to show sympathy for the beautiful stranger, being in other end of the bus. A distance between you and presence of people will confuse the girl around and will not dispose to communication with you.
2. Try to appear with the darling in one plane. If the girl sits – sit down nearby if hundred-IT get up. Make an exception only in case you sit, and the girl stands nearby. In that case get up and give way to her. She for certain will estimate your small, but noble gesture. Besides, you will have an occasion to stick acquaintance.
3. The first visual contact is very important. Try to begin with a faint smile. Give to the girl time to notice you and it is inadvertently better to consider. The best option of succession of events at this stage is if you manage to distinguish reciprocal sympathy. It is rather simple to make it. If the girl smiles to you, does up hair, glances in your party – further success to you, most likely, is provided.
4. It is time to start more active actions. Strike up a conversation the first. Give an unusual compliment, joke, comment on a look outside the window or an unusual situation in the bus. Try to speak quietly so that you were heard only by the girl. It will help you to feel more comfortably and more surely and will not confuse your fellow traveler.
5. Avoid standard phrases of young people in a similar situation. You should not say: "The girl, allow to get acquainted with you" or "And the son-in-law is not necessary to your mother?". These hackneyed phrases will not allocate you from crowd of her admirers, besides you risk to pass banal and uninteresting. And here and to full fiasco will be nearby.
6. Learn where your companion, whether point of her appointment goes soon. This information will help you to understand what is the time you have for creation of a favorable impression about yourself and acquaintance fixing.
7. Do not begin a conversation on subjects of personal character. What is appropriate at acquaintance in club or on the street in the bus can not work. Unostentatiously suggest the girl to take her home. When around there are less people, it will be simpler to you to find contact, to prove and start more active actions.
8. If you do not plan to leave with the girl in one place, you should exchange with her contacts in the bus. And ordinary "Dictate to me, please, the phone number, I would like to meet you once again" here will not work. Try to be original and to look self-assured even if it not so. If someone stepped the girl on a foot or accidentally touched, can joke and ask its phone number under a pretext to accompany and preserve it on each trip. If all of you made correctly, she will appreciate your sense of humour and will agree.