Why it is rather difficult to get acquainted with adult women to young guys? The fact is that when mature women meet young gentlemen, they consider that there is no sense to spend the time and forces for the relations which, in their opinion, have no future.
Instruction
1. To get acquainted with the woman, you have to look good. It is unlikely you will interest the person if you are dressed in ripped jeans and a wrinkled t-shirt. It does not say that you have to put on expensive suit and a tie. Here it is important to have accurate appearance. You should not try to look more senior by means of clothes — put on what suits you.
2. Be clever and show gravity of the intentions. If the adult woman sees your determination, good sense of humour, interest, she will surely want to get acquainted with you closer. Just approach it, give compliments, fascinate her. Be sure of themselves, are resolute. So, the woman will see in you the man, but not the boy, diffident. The adult woman for certain heard for the life a huge number of compliments, banal and uninteresting. Interest her in the originality. In advance think up beautiful and unusual compliments which will surely fascinate the lady. Sincerely admire her mind, beauty, vital views.
3. Do not change. The adult woman distinguishes falseness at once and will not want to continue acquaintance any more. Do not tell it about the love affairs or about ex-girlfriends. Do not you want the lady to take you for the thoughtless youth? You start conversations on serious subjects, tell her about serious plans for the future, listen carefully to her, without interrupting.
4. If you see that the woman became interested in you too, invite her to an appointment. It has to take place in relaxed atmosphere. If your companion — cheerful and naughty, you bring her into the amusement park. For certain none of her age-mates invited her to this place. So, she will feel the young little girl. If the woman — serious, hold an appointment at good restaurant, cinema and in any other similar place, but do not conduct her at all to ride roundabouts. To such lady there has to be other approach.
5. Show the generosity. It is not necessary to spend money like water to the right at all and on the left, just you do not stint an institution where you will spend evening. Even if it will be inexpensive cafe, you have to let know to the woman that she can order any dish on the taste. In such a way you show that on her you do not grudge money.