The neighbor though is a person, foreign to you, often knows about your life more, than close friends and acquaintances. That is why will be useful to strike up acquaintance to that lady who lives behind a wall from you. And it is not so difficult to make it.
Good relations with neighbors – pledge of quiet and normal life in the apartment or the house. Why? Because those people who live behind your wall can how to make your life intolerable (loud music at the wrong time, infinite repair and other "pleasures"), and to introduce in it something kind and light (to water flowers in your absence, to look after pets or children).
If you are a man
To get acquainted with the neighbor not so difficult, especially if you the man. Several polite and stock phrases, couple of smiles it is also possible to be interested in a name safely. If you do not differ in special eloquence, then it is possible just to glance with the offer of the help. For example, if you see that the neighbor bears immense packages of products. First, it is so simpler to strike up a conversation. Secondly, women always appreciate attention and the help, irrespective of age.
Your warning of the forthcoming party can become a quite good pretext to acquaintance also at your place. Take an interest at the neighbor whether she will be disturbed by loud music in the evening. It can become also a pretext to invite the girl to you on a visit for acquaintance. Even if your neighbor – the pensioner, it is worth getting acquainted with her. First, elderly people transfer noise from the neighboring apartment worse. Secondly, your reputation in the yard and in the house can suffer from excessive vigilance from their party. You treat with respect the neighbor, irrespective of her age, weight and growth.
If you are a woman
It is easier for women to get acquainted with the neighbor. Acquaintance can be begun with a compliment. For example, about what beautiful shoes on your neighbor, and a question of where it is possible to get similar. Even if to you such footwear and not to liking. A kind word, a compliment and interest – here that can melt heart even the most unapproachable in appearance women. One more occasion to get acquainted is to glance to the neighbor behind salt or sugar. Small everyday issues unite women, and the culinary subject can become a basis of firm friendship further. Very few people can refuse such innocent request as a glass of sugar or a pinch of salt. In parallel it is possible to praise repair at your neighbor even if only the corridor or an upholstery of an entrance door is visible to you. Here what precisely you should not do, so it to begin acquaintance with a negative. Even if your neighbor – the personality immoral in your opinion, is better to find to her positive approach, than to swear. First, it will save nerves to you. Secondly, neighbour's life will be unlike better, than infinite Cold War which will cause damage to all.