Even the most loving parents periodically can raise the voice on the child. Sometimes all of us break on shout, in advance understanding that all of us will be sorry then about made. How will learn to control the feelings and to get it together?
Why you should not shout at children? All teenagers perceive shout equally – they it are frightened. The truth reaction at everyone to shout the, someone begins to cry and becomes reserved, others begin to hide in other room or just to shout in reply. It is possible to tell that constant shout injures mentality of the child and destroys warm relationship.
When shout is useful?
It is necessary to take into account that shout it is not always bad. In life there are moments when it is simply necessary. For example, there are emergency situations when the child crosses the road and the car quickly goes to him. In this case it is necessary to shout and warn the child about danger. But increase in tone will work on the child only if you do not shout at it constantly, with an occasion and without cause.
How to overcome irritability? In order that will learn it is necessary to get it together to ask the help at the child. Do not think that he still has not enough years, and he understands nothing. On the contrary, children are very sensitive and very well perceive mood of parents. It is necessary to tell the child that it is difficult to you to control the feelings and permit he that he interrupted you or stopped. Here you will see that when the child asks you not to shout and talk quietly, you will cease to shout. Learn to have a rest more with the child and to find for him more time. It is very difficult to maintain the relations when around a stressful situation. Very often shout is caused by overfatigue therefore do favorite things, take a bath or read the favourite book. If you feel that your nerves hand over very often, then only the psychologist can come to the rescue. The expert will advise you medicine thanks to which you will become quieter. What it is necessary to remember that the child in the childhood can make nothing, but as soon as he grows up, he will cease to communicate and trust the most important with you to you. Before shouting think what it can lead to and stop. There is one good means which smoothly works when the conflict situation was formed - it is humour. Try not to shout at the child or to pogavkat or porychat. He will understand that you are dissatisfied, but will not be frightened and porychit together with you and everything will pass into a comic game.