The love dependence is a disease which in the USA treat in the groups working by the same principle as society of anonymous alcoholics. If you do not live in the USA, then it is necessary to cope with a problem independently.
1. Forbid themselves even to think of darling. If the passion is destructive, it is necessary to take measures. Be ready that absolutely without serious consequences break in relations will not pass. The main objective is to minimize spiritual wounds. For this purpose it is necessary to transfer emotions to the rational sphere and to learn to control them. Be mentally fenced off by a wall from an object of the unfortunate love. You the strong and independent personality who will be able to overcome herself.
2. That relation gained completeness, it is necessary to state everything that you think of it – on paper, or orally. Between you there should not be half-words. If there is no such opportunity, make as follows: put a chair and present that on it your love sits. Express as it tortured you what he is stale and unscrupulous. And then forgive him and forget forever.
3. It is possible to try to support it with the written contract with itself. Among other, state the term during which you will dare to long in the contract. Spend this time with advantage – operate the emotions. It is possible to state in the contract also an incentive prize on which you can count until the expiration if terms of the contract (to stop loving and forget) will be executed. New shoes, for example, or box of chocolates can become such prize.
4. Happens that when you already made the decision and you combat feelings, darling "wakes up": calls, suggests to start everything anew. Be not conducted! You touched with the act his pride, and he tries to restore the status quo.