Quite often beautiful and clever girls complain that they cannot construct the family in any way and begin to reflect on the damnation wreath imposed on them. But at once to run to the magician and it is not necessary to spread to him the round sum for "treatment", at first it is necessary to consider fixedly the situation which developed in your private life.
Instruction
1. Analyze the relation to family values, perhaps, you subconsciously avoid the serious relations, frightened of past experience or examples from life of girlfriends and the family. It becomes very simply: take the sheet of paper and write on it the first associations coming to your mindyour mindyour mind at the words "love", "family", "husband", "child". Try not to remove logical regularities, we fix the first impressions.
2. Try to depict the psychological problem (absence of family, moral loneliness) in simple, visible images, and now mentally present how the ideal family in your understanding has to look.
3. At once to combine two images of a real and ideal idea of family it will not be got. As the exercise helping to remove a destructive spirit for marriage it is possible to use the following: extend palms before yourself and on one present in visions model of ideal idea of family life, and on another – your associations with real marriage. Gradually begin to cramp palms together, trying to connect these images in the consciousness. It is necessary to carry out exercise within a minute, and then to leave your close palms pressed each other.
4. Avoid the destructive, destroying behavior relation – scandals and jealousy, try to pay more attention to the man and learn it is realistic to look at the world around and family values, and then no charms and damnations will manage to deprive of you joy to feel as the beloved's wife.