There are two various opinions about jealousy. Some claim: "Is jealous – means, loves". Others argue the point of view that the jealousy is pernicious for two beloved.
Instruction
1. The jealousy – feeling not the most positive, sometimes can lead to destruction of the relations or a divorce of spouses. Of course, in certain cases the jealousy in certain doses can kindle the dying-away love spark between lovers. But in general the jealousy is a destiny of the weak, diffident and doubting fidelity of the partner persons.
2. If you noticed that you began to be jealous the man of his former to the girl as he began a thicket to remember it in the stories, then take control over the emotions. Look narrowly at the beloved as he speaks kindly of the ex-girlfriend and grief or as of a past element. If the second, then to you is no need to worry. Each person has a past without which there will be no future.
3. If your elect really grieves about that who was to you, then here it is worth thinking, but not to get excited. First, it is not necessary to doubt himself, the beauty, erudition and also fidelity of the man. Time he with you, so you could attract it with something. Perhaps you have those unique qualities of empathy and support of people that were absent in the nature of its former. And the showdowns, the conflicts and scandals you will only push away the partner. He will conceal a lot of things to avoid house trials with you.
4. The jealousy is expressed in fear of loss of the power over a love object. Many women are afraid that their man will throw and will return to the ex-girlfriend or the wife. And this fear is more often justified dependence on the darling in material and spiritual sense. Focus on the hobbies and a hobby, give a splash to the creative undertakings. Find to yourself work or a side job to liking. Let these actions will add to you confidence that you are demanded also at work and as the personality. But if you feel that your jealousy goes beyond all limits, then it is necessary to ask the expert for the help.