The jealousy of the wife can seriously break family life of some couples. The reasons for it there can be a weight. In certain cases the woman has the real reasons for concern, but this feeling is much more often is groundless, and empty suspicions are capable to spoil relationship, breaking trust and support in family. About how to get rid of jealousy of the husband, we will talk in this article.
Instruction
1. Listen to yourself and understand why you so worry and what caused jealousy of the husband. Treat this reason crucially – if you in soul understand that it is not interesting to husband to communicate with you any more and he derives bigger pleasure from work and from communication with friends, recognize it.
2. Realize the real reason of jealousy – perhaps the point is not that the husband to you is incorrect, and that you are not satisfied by yourself and the relations between you. Try to discuss the arisen difficulties with the husband, have with him a heart-to-heart talk. Do not accuse of incorrectness, it will not help to get rid of jealousy, and on the contrary will cause negative emotions.
3. Do not trust gossips and conjectures – even if girlfriends and colleagues claim that the husband changes you, perhaps, it not so, and these people only pursue own interests. Listen only to own intuition, try to support the atmosphere of mutual trust in the family. In such situation it is simpler to get rid of jealousy of the husband.
4. If you notice that the husband really looks at other girls, do not make scandals, and understand what qualities in you are not enough for your husband. Take care of the own life – offer him what girls who to it became nice will not have. Let it know that you – the most careful, beautiful and talented woman.
5. Develop in yourself the best qualities which will even more attract the husband to you. Be improved, constantly you raise and you study. The man will not want to throw the woman who constantly is in a condition of creative and intellectual growth, with whom it is always interesting.
6. If you are not able to cease to be jealous, and this feeling becomes stronger than your aspirations and desires, address the psychologist who will help to cope with a disturbing state and will find their reason in your own mentality.