Lyubov is different, and seldom she is unpromising – however, exist love which have much less prospects and positive lines, than others. Among them – love of the woman for the married man, and in this case the woman dooms herself to a set of the unpleasant moments and experiences which will not allow it to derive pleasure from life and also will not give the chance to enjoy life together with darling.
Instruction
1. Estimate yourself as personally mature person – think whether all mistakes and disappointments connected with the affair with the married man are necessary to you. As a rule, the men getting mistresses out of marriage operate them, and you risk to become dependent on the lover, at the same time, without receiving anything in exchange – on the first place in the man's life there will always be his wife.
2. If you meet the married man, think why you began these relations. Perhaps, you have a hidden desire to fight the mature and wealthy husband off the wife, and it is possible, you just want thrills. Anyway, the love for the married man stores for you much more minuses, than is plus.
3. Constant compliments and gifts of the married man can attract the woman in love, but they will not replace really serious relations which are in this situation impossible by definition. The only opportunity to create these serious relations is to break off marriage of the man in favor of marriage with you, but, as a rule, such decisions are not made, and the woman remains lonely, living as the mistress.
4. All this speaks well for the termination of the relations with the married man – even if it is heavy to you to interrupt habitual communication, it needs to be made to find freedom and to begin new life. Realize that around you – tens and hundreds of free and worthy men who can be much more reliable and cleverer than your married partner and each of which can become your couple.
5. Realize own value – fall in love with yourself, be engaged in the appearance, feel that you are proud of yourself and know the own worth. For this reason you will not allow the married man to use you any more when he is bothered by own wife. The relations with the married man are humiliating for the woman – convince yourself that you are unworthy such situation, and begin to lead new life, to look for new friends, to do favorite thing and to meet new men.
6. Learn to spend free time with advantage – be engaged in a favourite hobby which you threw a few years ago, go to a travel, climb a career ladder. You do not descend from the chosen way and do not cancel the decision – soon your life will change, and you will get rid of unpleasant dependence.