You change phone, risking to lose a half of friends, but it finds your new number through the remained half; you are in a new way cut and painted, but such you are pleasant to it even more. It pursues you as the karma, and, apparently, is not present any opportunity to disappear from it. He is the importunate admirer who imagined the meaning of the life your gain. Be not upset. It is possible to take away such unfortunate lover. The main thing – scientific approach.
Instruction
1. Never go on any compromises. The importunate admirer, having received even a tiny concession to his requirements, by all means "will break the resistance" you, having forced to agree to something larger. Even if it and not so, any concession is always regarded by any person as advance payment.
2. You are not lazy to repeat to the young man that he is not necessary to you. They say, water sharpens a stone. Do not support in it illusion of the fact that his courtings can break your resistance once.
3. "I will crash into a wall (I will open veins, I will jump out of window 15 of the floor and other) if you are not mine!" is a blackmail. Probably, the most ancient of its forms. You should not give in. All those unfortunate lovers who used this way of gaining darling, but were all the same rejected, to this day are alive and healthy. But also to stop trying to intimidate you without punishment, is not necessary. Surely state to "suicide" everything that you think of his methods to be pleasant to you. Be not afraid, the instinct of self-preservation is much stronger than hormones.
4. Do not welcome sense of guilt. Neither you, nor your short skirt and a bright make-up, are guilty that at the guy obsessions take place. You do not take any responsibility for others emotions.
5. No gifts can be accepted. Probably, this point should be carried to point on concessions. Having accepted a gift from the admirer, you (psychological realities are that) let it know that his courtings are ready to accept.
6. Do not use meekly in love to take a walk with your dog, to help to drag heavy bags and so forth. Of course, the temptation is huge, but probability that after a while you will not be able just to do without this lovely and ready always to come to the rescue of you the guy is high.
7. At last, heavy artillery. In every possible way show to the lover wellbeing in the private life. It is infrequently possible to meet young (and not really) the man capable to continue to look after the girl who already gave the heart to another.