The lover – it is good, if you entered into such relations. Well because you had on it reasons both serious, and trifling. You met, spent together leisure-time, fell in love, or perhaps and did not fall in love, just in one of days thought of what will be farther. Family, a cozy nest, three children and a big dog – an ideal picture to which there is a wish to aspire. However the elect does not hurry to share your interests. It also is clear, "the stallion of others stable" was your lover. It is necessary to get rid of the married man beautifully, quickly and without serious consequences.
Instruction
1. Talk to the man about plans for the future, so unostentatiously. Dream aloud, let it know that think such already lodged in your lucid mind and began to take roots. Let it will be the first stray signs or a stone in its kitchen garden, an occasion to think.
2. At another meeting take an interest, what about it at home. If he thinks for a second and will answer you that it and so now at home, and yours with it affairs is excellent, then the question of gravity of its intentions becomes ripe. In that case you are simply obliged to put the ultimatum if you wish to translate darling from the status "is married" on the status "is free". Other option if you hear a never-ending stream of words about its children-cat-car-dacha-mother-in-law, note for yourself that it is a final argument for a rupture of such relations. Your lover leads the married life.
3. When you are defined in the decision to leave, one more hard task is necessary to you: to cut or cut off. The choice will depend on many factors. Character, communications, possibilities of your elect, a living space, if it not yours, for example, – a number of nuances which will influence the course of events.
4. You act rashly if you the strong, stress-resistant, independent person. When you do not depend on the lover neither physically, nor is material. Try not to be due in something to such person. Pack all its things, pack and send to the taxi there where he will be. Do not give a reason to return behind something. Put the end, do not react to calls, SMS, letters. Avoid places where before you were easy to be found on the place. At work warn colleagues that you were not disturbed by the anonymous authors who are tearing off phone. The alternative is to take a vacation and to go to have a rest.
5. If your relations were difficult, and it is not so simple to break link as it would be desirable, begin to conduct tactics of "cutting". Your purpose to make so that the married lover wanted to run away from you. He has to understand that he made a mistake, having contacted such person as you. That presence of the mistress delivers him an array of problems, than pleasures.
6. You grumble and cry in an occasion and without. Neither that, nor another wins over the stronger sex. Become quarrelsome, bitchy, dissatisfied though actually you that also are not. Try on an actresses mask. Play a role competently and without punctures.
7. You ask or demand gifts, the more – the more considerably it will be reflected in its family budget. Today you need a dress, tomorrow – shoes, the day after tomorrow – a fur coat. The lack of cash of a purse will surely notice his legal wife that it will lead to obvious scandal. Be not afraid that because of these quarrels he immediately will arrive to seek to you consolation. And if comes, then it is remarkable, you just need money for the new washing machine. You will begin to cost very much to such man, it will serve as a call to find option "cheaper".
8. Be overzealous in manifestation of attention to the lover. Shower it with SMS messages, it is desirable when it houses with the family. Come to it for work, arise upon the general meetings with his friends and colleagues. Pretend to be careful mummy in front of mutual friends that he felt shame, inconvenience and discomfort.