Until recently girls and young men got acquainted in the companies, in a disco, and sometimes and on the street. Now the increasing popularity is gained by acquaintances in the virtual world. Most often girls seek to find on the Internet the love.
Before beginning correspondence with the young man, it is necessary to define what its purpose. It is not necessary to address the guy in too playful tone at once, subsequently he can just not take such girl seriously. If she wants acquaintance to continue the relations in the real world, then for a start it is necessary to think over the strategy of further actions carefully.
You should not be told about yourself too much at once. The girl always has to remain a riddle which the young man will want to solve. If the girl is clever, well educated and well-read is, of course, an advantage, but it is not necessary to disclose it at once. Unfortunately, some young men are rather afraid of too clever interlocutors.
Men often are afraid of ardent recognitions and, especially, infringement of their freedom. Therefore it is the best of all to begin correspondence with companionship. The young man should not perceive the girl as the candidate for a role of the bride at once. For a start it is better to become for him just pleasant interlocutor. Gradually learning its interests, it is quite good also most to understand subjects which can carry away it. Common interests always bring together people. It is important that to the guy it was comfortable to communicate with the new acquaintance, and he did not feel subject to hunting. Ease of communication, most likely, will be pleasant also to him and it is quite possible that he will want to make correspondence more romantic.
If friendly correspondence begins to gain romantic character, the guy and the girl will want to meet in real life. It is better if by this time they already are rather well familiar with each other, it will help them to avoid awkwardness. Girls who from the very beginning correspond in too liberated tone make a big mistake. Most of guys not without pleasure maintain similar friendly relations, however at a meeting feel awkward. And here if the mutual sympathy evolved from companionship, it can lead to much more serious relations. It will be just remarkable if personal acquaintance is same pleasant as virtual. However at acquaintance on the Internet it is better to observe certain precautionary measures. Communicating in network, people do not see each other, and the pleasant young man can be not that for whom gives itself. Therefore it is better to appoint the first appointment in the afternoon in the crowded place accidentally not to run into troubles.