Almost all people on the planet, regardless of a sex, age, nationality and education dream to get the serious relations. Everyone wants to find the soulmate, the person who will understand and love you it what you are actually.
Instruction
1. The most important - you have to derive pleasure from these relations. If you at least are not a little selfish, then no relations at you with your elect will turn out. On the other hand, if you are engaged in narcissism all the time and to insist on adoption of the decisions, then your "cooperation" is doomed to failure. It is necessary to find balance.
2. Study character of your partner and his habit, notice strong and weaknesses. If you do not know state of mind of the person who is near you, then you will never be able to understand the reasons of his decisions. Discuss the relations of close friends more often that from their family relations you would like to adopt and that – no. It will allow you to establish mutual understanding in family.
3. You do not hurry, but also you do not hesitate. As often as possible be engaged together in those things which bring pleasure to both of you. Try to sate your relations with a set of small traditions: your holidays, small rituals, joint trips and a sit-round gathering with friends.
4. Very important step to creation of the serious relations - the beginning of joint life. Certainly, to rent apartment for two or to move to someone from you not so difficult. Much more difficult will be first weeks of cohabitation on the general living space. Household problems destroyed not one loving couple. That all these "uninteresting" problemyoboshl the party, you can use small cunning. At emergence of a problem literally "escape" from it in cafe or restaurant, and you will quarrel already then with the cold head. It will allow you to avoid transition on the personality and will give the chance to approach even more.