Concepts love and love received millions of definitions – scientific, in terms of biology and even physics, chemistry, and philosophical. In each family, secrets of preservation of feelings and how to get to fall in love forever a subject of the desire are from generation to generation transferred.
Any person, whether it be the woman or the man, at least once in life dreamed to become forever the most favourite and necessary in life for someone. It is very difficult to be an ideal and meaning of life for the partner. Long time can be necessary in order that the one who is pleasant only paid attention to you. And to hold a look and to show that you also are that person with whom it is necessary to cast in the lot forever, even more difficult. Many make the most ridiculous mistakes in development of the relations, breaking off the first, most fragile threads, pushing away from itself darling.
To bring joy
The first and main mistake is "help" to attract attention by means of any given problems, for example, "prompt" or "teach". It is impossible to do it at the initial stage at all! From the very first days acquaintances you risk to become a source of efforts, and not always pleasant. Try to learn as much as possible better about hobbies and the interests of a subject of your passion that there were general subjects for a conversation, communication with you became pleasant and useful. Your new acquaintance is keen on soccer (basketball, a snowboard, biathlon etc.) – master elements of this sport, read literature of this subject, study results of the last competitions. The girl of your dream is fond of astronomy or floristics? Learn at least names of the largest constellations, attend floriculture courses. Believe, the man possessing knowledge of the field of botany and the girl who knows the rating of the soccer teams – it is so unusual that will surely draw attention of an opposite sex.
Not to press
The first appointment – the dream came true also he (she) mine. This mistake is made, practically, by all lovers. After the first romantic dinner it is impossible to arise on a visit at all and to arrange the hysteric due to the lack of calls and attention. To become an aggressor and the dictator from the first days of the relations, it means to push away the partner, to cause a negative.
To become the friend and to be interesting to the partner
Any relations are, first of all, a partnership, and it assumes trust and friendship. Try to make so that these feelings became a basis of your relations. One more widespread mistake which leads to break in relations and cooling of feelings is refusal of development, updating of itself, especially it concerns women, unfortunately. Having caught a treasured ringlet on a finger and a stamp in the passport, they get over in a cozy dressing gown and use as ornament only hair curlers. Continuous updating of an image, a variety in sexual life and a smile - here a guarantee of the long relations and love forever.