Sometimes on the basis of friendship much more warm and intimate feelings arise. It is possible to transfer communication with the female girlfriend to other course gradually. But if the friendly relations for some reason were broken off, then it will be a little more difficult to get to fall in love the girlfriend.
1. At first it is necessary to restore at least the friendly relations. Therefore regardless of the one who is guilty of a quarrel you should go to the first for contact and to offer reconciliation. Make it unostentatiously – do not impose to the girl the friendship. It is better to suggest it to talk and find out what led to a quarrel, but not who is guilty. Suggest to be reconciled in cafe behind eating of pizza and a glass of wine – it is cheerful and does not hint at your love feelings. Having learned about your love, the girl can be discharged even more.
2. Now you – again friends, it is also possible to pass to the next stage of gain. To be more favorable by the friend in some aspects, than the boyfriend. The girl shares with you the experiences, and also the description of positive and negative qualities former, the impressions of their gifts and behavior. Use it in own purposes – she told you what appointment considers ideal and what qualities the potential applicant for her hand and heart has to have. You should not guess with the choice of cafe and style of communication to win it – just be guided by her words.
3. The girl understood that you do not treat her any more how to the friend and you hope for bigger? Now everything depends on its decision. Most likely, it will need a little time for thoughts. Do not try to press on it, do not take in head to tell her "what here to think - we well know each other", "I consider, from us ideal couple will turn out" - similar statements will only frighten off it. Can happen and so that she will not want to see you as the guy and will suggest to leave everything as it is. Respect its choice. It is not necessary to pass to insults and to try to become persistently her guy – so you will destroy friendship finally, and it will be very difficult to correct a situation then.