In matrimonial life everything is rare and always goes like clockwork. Marrying, we swear an oath to be together in joy and in a trouble, in poverty and wealth. But actually life changes, and together with it the relations in family change. Sometimes the wife begins to feel indifference of the husband and does not know how to return former happiness. How to arrive in this case?
Instruction
1. 1. To understand what person near you. Perhaps, he is a fan of novelty. Once you for it it were a new experience. And now seem experienced and the acquaintance to the smallest nuances long ago. And it is attracted by new impressions, opening, women. In this case you should change most. To try different styles of behavior, to change images. And to diversify your communication, beginning from sex and finishing with carrying out days off. Other option is possible – just something does not suit your husband in the relations. For example, you constantly listen to councils of mother, and it irritates the husband. He considers you dependent, plus usually does not agree with opinion of the mother-in-law. In this case it is necessary to analyze his words and acts. Perhaps, it will not be difficult for you to change something in the habits, and your image will coincide with image of the ideal woman in the opinion of the husband.
2. 2. To fall in love with itself and to find for itself more time. Start doing fitness, visit beauty shop, do not forget about self-development. Often problems of spouses arise when one of them develops eventually, and another remains at the same level. With realization of this council there can be difficulties if you the housewife, you have a small child, and the only entertainment – viewing series. And the husband goes to work, he has a rich life, he rotates in a circle of interesting people, he is aware of technical and other novelties. That is he develops, lives up to date. In this case you need all the same to find time and opportunities for the personal self-improvement. And also it is obligatory to show to the husband that your house efforts are not less important, than his work. That education and child care – responsible business, and, say, process of pro-cutting at the kid of teeth requires special attention from parents. Let the husband participate in education of the child and care of it too. Understanding that this difficult business, will promote increase in your authority. At the same time the husband will more strong become attached to the child that will strengthen family in general.
3. 3. The husband is too spoiled. In love one loves, and another – accepts love. This rule is applicable not to all relations. But it is right when one of spouses is indifferent and does not appreciate marriage, and another loves and wants to keep the relations. Perhaps, the indifferent spouse actually needs the half. Only he does not realize it. Remember other proverb: "What we have we do not store, having lost – we cry". The wife cares for the husband, washes to him clothes, cooks food, loves and humours him. And it becomes boring for the man. It by the nature – the hunter. Such relations are not interesting to it any more, in them there is no highlight. What should I do. "The we love less woman, the easier she like us". Concerning men this statement is right too. Represent coldness – even if not always, and from time to time. Try not to be persuasive and do not run after. Be better a few bitch. It is no secret that men strong become attached to the eccentrical women capable to make scandal out of the blue. Only you watch that whims did not develop into constant discontent with the husband. Use "a bitchiness method" for entering of novelty into the relations and you do not saw the husband at all.