Unlike men who begin to meet the woman for the sake of meetings, the woman, in the majority meet the man in hope to start a strong and close-knit family. And the task of the man in love to give to the woman hope that your intentions are serious that it looked for you all this time.
Begin to speak about the feelings. Of course, for you it can become serious test as at men it is not accepted to express openly the emotions, but women are auditory, and for them the words of declaration of love have paramount value. Only you do not speak about love if you are not sure of it, it is not necessary to give to the woman false hope as you can cause her pain if the hope does not come true. In this case try to begin with compliments, with assurances that it the most unusual, the most desired and attractive. When be convinced of it, begin to speak about love.
Discuss joint plans for the future. No what so convinces of gravity of intentions as creation of joint plans. Begin with planning of the forthcoming holiday or a trip to friends, and then smoothly you pass to discussion of cohabitation and the desirable number of children.
But it is not necessary to stop only in words, do not forget also about acts. Try to spend with the darling much time: more often you call her, communicate on Skype, invite to an appointment. Suggest to meet her after study or work that it did not go one, it will let it know that you worry about it. You give it bouquets of flowers and small gifts for no reason at all. It not only will show your romanticism and aspiration to please the partner, but also will give to the woman hope that you intend to arrive and further. Try to be interested in her desires and mood. Do not insist on a visit of cinema or restaurant if she was very tired even if tickets are already bought from you, do not demand from the woman of proximity if she badly feels. Here you will see, she will have a rest and will reward you for these victims. Get acquainted with her friends and parents and try to make on them as much as possible pleasant impression. She will be sure of gravity of your intentions if you try to become a part of its environment. Do not forget also it to present to the family and friends, help it to join your life, she surely will estimate it. If you do not look at its presence at other women, then do not discuss with it previous girls. If she started a conversation on your last relations, you should not throw mud at the former girlfriends or to speak about their advantages. Just convince it that it is the best. You should not try to cause in it feeling of jealousy, it is very dangerous course, it most likely will not give to the woman of confidence in gravity of your intentions.