The compliment is an engine of any relations, business, friendly and, especially, love. It is a special genre with the stylistic and psychological laws.
1. Relevance. If the girl has a delicate taste and the developed sense of humour, you should not read sentimental stories, writing out pig-iron templates it seems from there: ""Your eyes as two lakes"". To plunge into the depths of love lyrics of the left eras - good option if the girl of mind has a chamber. Such will estimate lines from ""Illiad"", ""A song of songs"" or Omar Jayam. And if the girlfriend is proud as she a mountain eagle, but is plain as the freshly painted stool, for expression ""Your breast as if two fluffy chrysanthemums"" can put heavy injuries.
2. Originality. If you think that you the first man who compares this girl to a May rose then you are mistaken. Even if she did not hear this expression in reality, then precisely met it in love affairs and, for certain, tried on roles of sentimental heroines on herself. If all of you decided on a heroic feat and scraped out from ten kilograms of sentimental reading matter two hundred twenty curly expressions for all occasions, then it is worth reserving them for the girlfriend who these novels lives and breathes. Comparison with one of heroines will also be for her the best compliment.
3. Formula. The compliment is when the man admires what the woman wants to see in herself. Complete her dreams till the finished image. If the girl - the social activist, then appropriate is to argue on her bright future, having mentioned her great business and organizing qualities. The usual compliment comparison assumes comparison of the girl and there is nobody an ideal image with which she to herself verifies. The good compliment is that truth which awakes imagination and causes remarks it seems: ""And why do you think so? And when you understood it? And you do not joke?""
4. Empathy. The ability to empathize, feel needs of the soulmate is that gold quality which is appreciated by women in men. The empathy helps to choose the most appropriate words and to give a compliment individual, not sample. In general any compliment is an indicator of that, how well the man understands the half. Let's say it reminds the man ""a little pretty lamb"". But the girl who by the nature of occupations feels as the shepherd or a sentry dog of confused herd can be offended by ""lamb"". And only if the man catches her unexpressed desire to be weak and guarded, the compliment will take root.