It is very heavy to parents to see sufferings of children. Unfortunately, parents are not able to solve problems of children for them. The only help – support and understanding. There are 10 ways as it is possible to help the daughter to endure parting and to forget the former gentleman.
Instruction
1. Communication and contacts. It is necessary to stop any contacts with the former young man. It concerns not only meetings, but also and communication via gadgets or social networks. It is impossible to forget absolutely the person whose page you visit almost each day
2. Something new. Let the daughter will try something new that she never tried earlier. The more will be interests and occupations, the less will be opportunities to think of the unsuccessful relations. It is important that hobbies were not only positive, but also useful
3. Discussion. You should not discuss former, but if does not leave, it is necessary to find for it time minimum. A talk about former will be able only to enhance dependence of the daughter on the young man. Any, even insignificant obsession is a certain way to get concern, to be depressed and even to lose interest in life
4. Wedge wedge. It is bad option – you should not begin the new relations until old completely ended. Until the daughter recovered after being, there is a probability of other partings and partings
5. Enthusiasm. It is necessary to remind as often as possible the daughter of what in her young life is and there will be a set of interesting and fascinating events. However it is not necessary to depreciate all that it had earlier. It is necessary to show the respect for its choice
6. Acquaintances. One more moment – the daughter should not be interested more in affairs of the guy at mutual friends and acquaintances. All that will lead only to the general disappointments
7. Initiative of acquaintances. In case acquaintances on the initiative want to tell the daughter about the guy, it is necessary to convince her to cut off such a conversation. So the interest of the daughter in the ex-boyfriend will gradually disappear
8. Daily pleasures. Let the daughter will try to find at least one joyful event, worthy lives, every day. It have to be events for which she is grateful, the gratitude and joy will help to have positive feelings
9. Interests. It concerns movies, books and a hobby. It is necessary to be convinced that everything, than the daughter – positively is engaged. Positive movies, books and other things