Your kid matures. He already tries to tell and take the first steps. But together with pleasant "feats" also the first protests and whims appear. Refuses to eat, does not want to wear a panama and throws everything on a floor. How to react to such behavior?
All this "disgrace" which is done by one-year-old children is absolutely normal for this age. If the child it is indifferent watches the events around, then it is a disturbing signal rather. Opening of cases, attempts to sort, break, gnaw and throwing of objects in different directions – an indicator of growing, development, inquisitiveness and activity.
During this period at the kid own desires which can not coincide with desires of adults appear for the first time and shown. Do not try to prove in every way that "you here main". It can adversely affect character of your child. Try to reach compromise between his desires and borders of legal.
To make life of your child safe and not to crush in him rudiments of will and an initiative, try to create around him the corresponding space. Install caps on sockets, remove fragile, sharp, small objects from the room in which the child plays. If you are afraid that he will break something, then just do not show him this subject. If selected something, try to replace it with an interesting toy at once.
Sitting at a dining table, seeing as you read the newspaper or "you polish" the smartphone, the kid begins to show to all this wild interest. Try to find something similar and to give to the child in hands. In kitchen it is possible to offer a metal pan and a spoon. They perfectly shine and rattle at blow the friend about the friend. Reading, give the back issue on worry, and replace the real phone toy. There are phones which sing good children's songs.
Forbidding something, avoid a particle "not". This harmful particle works on the contrary, and the child continues to do what you forbid him. Tell better what to him to make. For example, "put it", "approach me", etc. Use fairy tales and games for education. Let his elder brother or a favourite toy, but not a strict reprimand will become an example for the child.
If the child reaches for hot, sharp or to fire, the word "is impossible" also not absolutely appropriate. Among one thousand unclear to it the bans it is one more empty word. It is better to tell "it dangerously", "you will burn", "will be cut off", "hotly", "sharp". But interest will hardly die away until on itself tests. Many children's psychologists advise to allow children "to try" what is a needle or fire in a safe situation. As a rule, it works.
About about a year the child begins to murmur, his speech actively develops. As quickly he will start talking, depends on you. The more you will find for time to your communication, the quicker he will master language. Call objects and actions which you make: "Let's eat", "Bear to me the book", "We will go for a walk", "It is a ball", "It is a doll", "The girl cries", etc.
During feeding it is possible to allow the kid to try to eat most. It is unlikely from this something will leave. Then take the second spoon and finish feeding it. Do not force the child is if he refuses flatly. The children's organism is arranged much more harmoniously than our ideas of healthy nutrition. Turns away from a spoon? Means gorged on.
The first years of the child are very important for his future. Its character, his behavior in depend many on how there will pass it the first several years. Your attention, the help, care and understanding will serve your child as the great base for his further life.