Alcohol addiction of the loved one can become the real grief for all family. To get rid of this misfortune, it is necessary to help the individual to cope with the dependence. In your forces to make a contribution to its rehabilitation and to return the person from the swamp of alcoholism to rich, interesting life.
Be more tactful
Remember that, despite the addictions, the person should not suffer your reproaches and humiliations. Be more tactful and do not injure self-respect of the individual. Remember that the dependence is a disease, and sometimes the person gets into trouble, without realizing that creates. Your task is not to condemn him, not to abuse or lecture, and to show that you are ready to help.
Have a talk with the loved one in a quiet situation. Listen to him and try to understand its position. Inform the person that you worry for his life, and offer the help. Try to understand what gives him alcohol, and define as far as the person is ready to treatment.
Remember that there is no sense to talk to the person, dependent on alcohol, in an intoxication stage. Morning when he suffers from a hungover syndrome, too not the best option. Choose time when he does not drink, and talk to the person on the sober head.
Correct behavior
When in your family is dependent on alcohol, you need to nullify all temptations, at least, in your house. Refuse violent feasts, replace a feast with a tea drinking. Support and encourage the person who fights against the trouble. And here you should not reproach him with offenses and mistakes. Believe, at such moments to the individual it is much worse, than to you, and he needs only a consolation. Try to convince the loved one of need of treatment. Pay its attention to problems with health, work, the social sphere and money. Do it tactfully and describe how the individual without alcohol could be died. Dependent has to believe in a possibility of the better future and that it will always have a support in your person. However support should be given moderately. When the person who solves all problems caused by drinking habit is near, the drunkard will think not soon of need to change. Be not a nurse for the individual. If in a state of intoxication him lost documents or quarreled with friends, caused damage to property or health, lost work or respect of good acquaintances, let itself disentangle the received result. Understand that it will do only good to the alcoholic.
Treatment
If the person suffers from alcoholism, but refuses to go to the narcologist, perhaps, at you it will turn out to convince him to visit the psychologist or society of support of people with dependence. Explain that such support is simply necessary. Remember that fight against dependence on alcoholic drinks consists in total rejection of alcohol. If your close hopes that it at it will manage to be drunk moderately or seldom and to remain the normal member of society, dissuade him. Time the dependence already proved, so the only way for the individual to adjust the life – to show prudence and never to repeat last mistakes.