Desire of the husband leave family can be connected with appearance of the mistress or to arise without unfaithfulness. Anyway in the woman's hands there is always a power by means of which it can hold the spouse and keep a cell of society.
Instruction
1. Estimate a situation. Having felt obvious cooling or having learned about presence at the mistress's husband, you should not rush to fight. For a start quietly and adequately assess current situation. Find the reasons for which your husband decided to leave family, - the unhealthy psychological atmosphere, lack of intimate proximity between you, yours it discontent or others.
2. Eliminate negative factors. If you precisely know what caused detached behavior of the husband, start change of a situation. Refuse hard words, temper justice with mercy, stop to reproach it eternally and to underestimate. Take a detached view of a situation, and you will understand that in your relations not so.
3. Add the pleasant moments to your life. For certain earlier you spent time together more often and you had favourite joint occupations. Return them to the life, unostentatiously remind the husband of how to you it was good. Important without words to tell that you are ready to change and return in happy life together with him.
4. Quietly discuss a situation. The informal conversation will have positive effect only if during it you do not begin to snatch on the spouse, accusing him of all sins. Find forces on a measured conversation during which two adults will speak the vision of an unpleasant situation and ways of solution of problems.
5. Do not splash out anger and offense at the spouse. Even in case of emergence on the mistress's horizon you have a chance to keep the family therefore you should not rush with fists on the husband. Be provident, - in case of desire to hold the spouse behave quietly and spend energy for planning of restoration of the relations, but not for quarrels.