The spouse or the man who is nearby is very dear to you, and you want to keep the relations with it forever. Then try not to make typical mistakes in communication with men and to understand that your partner as well as you, wants to feel safe and it is comfortable in the company of darling.
Instruction
1. Remember that the aspiration of the woman to faultless purity and an order is alien to most of men. They do not pay attention to such trifles and it is not excited about your constant lectures about it at all. Be more tolerant, avoid cavils and instructions in a question of purity.
2. You do not hold the man on "a short lead". Create illusion of freedom, treating its hobby and communication with friends calmly. The woman banning to the spouse of a trip to fishing by all means causes in him quite reasonable misunderstanding and a protest. Think that if the person wants to change you, then he will find for this purpose enough occasions and time. And business at all not in fishing. The wives sponsoring day and night the husbands, controlling each step undermine belief of the spouse in the fortress of the relations. Such pressure from the woman is perceived resignedly only by flabby henpeckeds. And whether you need the dependent and weak-willed person nearby?
3. When your man comes back home, always heartily welcome him, a smile and a ready dinner. Quietly discuss all problems then. An indicator of the correct behavior of the wife – the spouse aspiring to the house in which to it it is quiet and good with pleasure.
4. Abstain from tears and hysterics. When the spouse sees your tears and experiences, he subconsciously begins to consider himself by the reason for everything, as a result - is angry that because of you got into psychologically discomfortable situation.
5. Men hate an infinite emotional talk. Therefore if you want to talk to the spouse, designate a time limit for a showdown. Working in a certain framework, men feel more comfortably.
6. Try to avoid criticism to the man, do not use the words capable to touch him. Of course, if the husband offended you – defend yourself. But at the same time choose reasonable style of communication.
7. You praise the man. As since the childhood to little boys impart a thought that they have to know and be able to do everything, having become adults, they very much need a praise and recognition for the sake of their psychological comfort.
8. Know, doing you the sexual offer, your man offers you more, than just sex. He asks you to accept it. Therefore never completely reject the proposal of the spouse. If you are not ready for sex at present and respond to the sexual proposal of the man "no", do not forget to tell that you love it.