Sometimes the importunate admirer literally does not give to the young lady of pass. Flowers, declarations of love, gifts – all this was pleasant only first, and then turned into a real nightmare. How to let know to the man that he is uninteresting, without offending him?
Instruction
1. Stick to encourage his courtings, for example, to accept gifts out of politeness. No matter, that it is the car or a lovely knickknack. You are not obliged to explain the refusal in this case, rather soft "I cannot, excuse".
2. Do not avoid the annoying gentleman, he can decide that you entice it it by "the old checked method". Talk to it frankly better. Be prepared for what should be spoken "no". It is difficult, especially if the man got used to hear from you constant "yes".
3. Most likely, behind your inability it is worth refusing fear. Women are learned to be correct, kind, and men often impudently use it and take usual courtesy for the invitation to intim. Yours "no" in this case means only unwillingness to be used so be not afraid to stand for yourself.
4. At the same time you should not be rude, especially in response to ardent recognitions. Kind of the person, perhaps, his feelings the most sincere was not unpleasant to you. Tell that he the real find for any girl, but you cannot reciprocate to him.
5. Offer it friendship. This cunning sometimes has a sobering effect even on the most thorough lady's men. The man absolutely precisely will understand that he in the erotic plan is not interesting to you, and to be on friendly terms is uninteresting to it.
6. Acquaint him with the girlfriend. Perhaps, they are created for each other! Characterize the man from the best side, you should not mention that he is not pleasant to you at all. Let the girlfriend will make about him own opinion.
7. Flirt with other men! Surrounding itself with crowd of gentlemen, you let know that you are free and did not stop the choice on the specific candidate yet. It has to work on your boyfriend as a tub of cold water, especially, if he got a false idea himself your beloved.
8. Be firm in the decision not to communicate with the annoying man, do not try to entice it even for fun. Perhaps, he only also waits that you will remain one, and you will have no place to disappear from his courtings. Let him precisely know that it has no chance, then it will cease to disturb you.