In family life there can gradually come the moment when romantic feelings begin to die away. At you it will turn out to improve relationship with the husband if you do not lower a hand and make a few efforts. Then you will be able to enjoy family happiness and wellbeing again.
Instruction
1. Pay attention to the spouse. Show it the love and tenderness. You tell pleasant words, be interested in its feelings and thoughts more often, make small surprises and gifts without cause. In trifles care is taken, and it will help to smooth any corners in the relations. Having felt attention, the man will pay back you with the same, and at you the world in family will set in again.
2. Sincerely farewell offenses. It is not necessary to save rage and to mentally scroll the offensive phrases told in a temper in the head. It is not necessary to nourish at all idea to sweep or to punish somehow for its mistakes. Make it not for the sake of the spouse or your marriage, and for the sake of own tranquility. Release a situation, and you will feel more happily.
3. You watch the emotions. Try to control the words and acts even during the large quarrel. When the rage settles, you will be sorry about the told words. If you feel that you cease to control yourself, stop a conversation and you go to other room. Emotions will settle, and you will look at a situation other eyes. Then you will be able to introduce the ideas quietly and without excess insults.
4. Become interesting to the spouse. It is possible that you moved away because you have nothing to talk. If your life is filled only with the house and the child, can be boring for it with you. Find to yourself a hobby, read books, communicate with other people. Begin to be interested in subjects which are interesting to your husband.
5. You spend time together. Try to think up occupation which will be interesting also to you, both the husband, and your child. Then you will be able to gather all family behind common cause and to communicate. By means of a joint hobby it is possible to improve relationship with the spouse.
6. Allow it to stay alone. It is necessary to give small freedom in the relations that each spouse could at least one evening a week have a rest from a family routine. Here personal hobbies, repair of the car in a garage, rest with friends or just reading the book belongs. But also you have to have time when the husband undertakes care of the child, and you have a rest.
7. Try to be positive and cheerful. After hard work the man wants to have a rest houses, to be loaded with energy and mood, allow him it. Tell an amusing story about the day, a joke or just talk to it with a smile upon the face.
8. Do not forget about sexual life. Despite the child's birth, possible problems with work and other adversities, it is necessary to find time on lovemaking. Many problems in the relations begin with the fact that spouses lack sex.