Friends will always support at the difficult vital moments. They will encourage when it seems that everything is lost, and will be glad together with you when your life gives the next pleasant surprise. That friends did not abandon you, it is necessary to feed the relations with them constantly.
Instruction
1. Take the first step. There is no sense to go with the hung head and to grumble because "all forgot about you". Perhaps, the problem is that you do not show an initiative. Try to analyze the relations with friends: who calls the first, who will organize meetings? Do not wait until you are asked to descend or chat somewhere: it can not be. Than less often you show an initiative, that high probability of deterioration in the relations with friends.
2. Agree about traditional meetings. For example, in student's years you had a noisy and cheerful company, and now it almost broke up. Of course, the merry fellow and the joker who replaced a fashionable dress with a solid suit any more will also not amuse all. But nevertheless it is possible to appoint traditional date on which you will meet. For example, the last Saturday of every month or the last day of a season can become it. All depends on your desires and opportunities.
3. Begin to be on friendly terms families. The most frequent reason for which friends move away from each other is new life of each of them. The career, marriage, children – all this, of course, changes the attitude both towards themselves, and by the time, and to friends. Call the girlfriend or the friend and invite with family somewhere. At the next meeting the reason for discussions will appear. Through some time you will forget how it is possible to spend the days off in a different way.
4. Consider financial position of the friends. You should not call friends in fashionable and expensive restaurant if you know that they have some difficulties with money. It can upset them, cause unpleasant emotions. They will begin to meet less frequently you, and then will be gone from your life at all.
5. Show to friends that they are really necessary to you. Have "a heart-to-heart talk" with the best friend / girlfriend, tell how you lack former friendship. Show the readiness for warm and sincere communication.