Communication, friendship, attention of the father are necessary for all children. The girl since the childhood studies communication with an opposite sex, the boy becomes a man, only having before himself an example for imitation. Unfortunately, often children grow practically without participation of the father. There is sad statistics — today the average man spends with the child less than 10 min. a day. The situation is just catastrophic!
Instruction
1. Of course, and the father can be understood. For days on end at work, late evening on arrival home feels only one desire – to lay down and fall asleep. Besides, nearby the woman, always ready to lend a shoulder. However because of such situation the contact with the child is absolutely lost. From here misunderstanding and quarrels. What to do? Let's consider several options.
2. If the child still very small, it is even good. The earlier the father will begin to communicate densely with the child, the easier will be farther. Often happens that the man does not know what to do with small. He is afraid, lost. In such cases mother has to more often, at the slightest opportunity to leave the father with the kid alone. In that case they just should find a common language.
3. If the father just physically does not manage to meet the child on weekdays if he comes from work late when the kid already sleeps – there are days off. Plan some actions for every week-end all family. It can be a campaign in a zoo, circus. It is possible just to go to the park, to play badminton, a ball. To organize a picnic outdoors. What you will be engaged in, it is not important – the main thing, all of you together. Time spent together best of all helps to improve the relations. Believe, the kid will never forget these days.
4. It would be very useful to find some occupation which only the father and the child can do. For example, to repair something, to hammer, collect model. If the father is a fisherman, it is possible to take the child on fishing. The general hobbies some known only to both of them secrets quickly will bring together them. The child will be proud of such skillful father, to appreciate his trust.