Mother — the loved one. But sometimes it develops so that that thread which connected you is over the years lost. And you can catch yourself on a thought that the relations with mother any more not such as were before, between you the abyss consisting of misunderstanding and mutual claims now. It is possible to improve the relations if to make some efforts for it and to show understanding.
Instruction
1. You often hear from mother persuasive councils as well as what to do, and because of it quarrel. Try to understand motives of your mother for a start. Subconsciously she wishes that you lived also as well as it because it already passed this way and, say, knows as it is better. Giving any given advice, she kind of removes from herself alarm for you.
2. Not to spoil the relation, just try to agree with it, and arrive as you find necessary. If earlier you dared to break on shout, then apply other tactics. Softness and conciliation — the best that you can choose.
3. If you periodically have to listen that you are not interested in either life, or health of own mother at all, then your mother, most likely, likes to present herself as the victim. Understand that at heart she is afraid of loneliness, doubts herself and own importance for children.
4. Try to convince the mother that she is loved and necessary to you, show her an affection. If you live separately, you call the first, take great pain to be interested, than she lives. Agree that daily, let five-minute phone conversation how its affairs, will relieve the tension and also will help to improve the relations.
5. Communicating by phone with you, mother speaks about something remote and at the same time is not interested at all that occurs in life of her child. Think, most likely, earlier you wanted to show it the full independence, to build the certain world in which mother does not have the place. For restoration of the relations show to mother that her opinion something means to you. Begin to ask her council, you ask for help in any given affairs.
6. Understand that after you matured, parents need your love also as you needed parental love in the childhood. Live life, but do not forget about those who gave it to you.