In some modern families the totalitarian regime when parents completely take the child's life under control still dominates, thereby limit his normal development. In order that the child grew up independent, it is necessary to know when to stop over powers of authority of parents. But, unfortunately, parents not always understand it. In this article we will consider how being a child to prove to parents the fact that you are capable to control the existence and to develop fully.
Prove the case acts
If you constantly swear at parents because of any vital problems, for example, because of your progress, then it is not necessary to try to expose itself to the best advantage by means of ridiculous turns of speech. Try to achieve considerable success in your educational activity better and to become the independent person. Parents, undoubtedly, will estimate this act.
Take care and respect
Parents are people too, and in your case they are the closest friends and companions. Do not allow small disputes to destroy your family happiness. Be tolerant. Endure a difficult moment with hope that shortly everything will get better.
Arrive in an adult way
Change the behavior. Get up on a level above. The childhood the childhood, but once it is necessary to mature. Make acts consciously. Behave as if you already quite wealthy adult. And then you will begin to be respected in the family circle.
Do not demand from parents of too much
Take a detached view of the family. What is not enough in your relations? Try to define the reason of these gaps in your family history. Perhaps, it is all about you? If this is soIf this is soIf this is so, then it is necessary to work carefully over itself. Also the operating schedule of parents can become the reason, because of problems at work the parents quite often become aggressive and transfer the aggression to family. In that case you need to talk to parents and to explain that it is necessary to leave all working moments behind a door.
Accept the parents
People cannot be changed if they do not want it. Even do not try to impart to your parents new lines and qualities. Just accept those which they already have. Any shortcomings can be turned into advantages.