To improve the relations in family when you have an adult daughter, it can be difficult business. Happens that over the years with it it becomes more difficult to talk and find a common language. However at the correct behavior you can establish good relations with the daughter.
Instruction
1. Show respect for life of your child. Accept the fact that you have already adult daughter, the independent personality. Perhaps, in soul you still consider her the little, unreasonable girl who needs to be taught wisdom and to preserve against external life. Your daughter can feel such relation and therefore to move away from you as from the parent. Try to understand her and to accept its interests.
2. You do not hurry to judge the daughter for any acts. Take the fact that you are representatives of various generations into account, it will help you to improve the relations. In spite of the fact that you are members of one family, formation of your persons was promoted by different education, culture, an environment and the external environment.
3. Get rid of the aspiration to self-fulfill through the daughter. Some parents make a mistake, trying to embody own dreams and the lost opportunities in the children. Provide to the adult daughter independently to choose a course of life, a profession, career, hobbies, friends, values, the principles and priorities.
4. Respect its choice. Happens that parents clash with the children concerning their choice of the satellite or the companion of life. Do not assimilate to them. If your daughter fell in love with the young man, give her an opportunity most to understand the relations. Do not interfere with them.
5. Give support of the daughter. If in her life there came hard times, be ready to help it council or money. And when your child shares with you the plans, never show the skeptical spirit. Believe in the girl and do not belittle her enthusiasm concerning any undertakings.
6. To improve the relations with the daughter, try to become for her not the mentor or the tutor, but the friend. Remember that it adult. Leave morals and construct the confidential atmosphere in your relations. Believe, thanks to your such behavior, the daughter will always appreciate you, to share with you everything that occurs in her life and to reckon with your opinion.