Unfortunately, families sometimes break up – because of inability of spouses to concede and unwillingness to understand each other because someone met new love … However not always after parting all relations between the husband and the wife – especially are severed if they have a child.
Instruction
1. After the divorce even if it was heavy, do not show hostility to the ex-wife. In a talk with mutual friends and especially with your children praise it only. If at meetings with children you make them gifts, do not forget and about their mother – even chocolate will be manifestation of attention and friendliness to the ex-wife. Let it know that she can count on your help and in education of children, and in life. Confirm the words with affairs.
2. If your ex-wife has a page on social networks, come there from time to time and leave compliments, highly appreciating photos and some achievements about which she tells. Show interest in its affairs and in health of her relatives. Do not forget to congratulate the first family with holidays.
3. If you married the second time, let know to the ex-wife that you highly appreciate her human and female qualities even if did not understand earlier as far as she is good. Such relation will help to soften torments of jealousy and more or less to reconcile it with you.
4. If the ex-wife tries to manipulate you, blackmailing with children, try to settle this question peacefully. If you carry out parental responsibilities, the law on your party. In practice the ex-wife will be able to interfere with your communication. Try to improve children cordial, trusting relations that they saw in you not only the father, but also the friend. Try to do not miss meetings with the child if he waits for them. Always keep the promises.
5. If you want to start a family with the ex-wife again, think for what reason you left. Try to get rid of habits which were the cause of quarrels and conflicts. Make so that the ex-wife learned about positive changes in you from relatives or from mutual friends. If you are going to go at a meeting with children for a walk or to any interesting place, call with yourself and it is let she will remember that time when you were the loving family.
6. Try to change to the best your life. Very effective way – sports activities. First, it will become useful for health, secondly, you to look better, thirdly, at you will appear interesting familiar with the same hobbies. If your wife also did not appreciate that person whom once left, then, perhaps, it will be grieves it to lose the sporty attractive man without addictions who will be twisted any minute by another.
7. When you feel that the ex-wife estimated your attitude towards her and towards children, start a conversation about reconciliation. Listen to her opinion on your last behavior and promise to get rid of the main shortcomings. If the wife agrees to one more attempt, do not forget the promises and you keep this word.