Why once ideal, harmonious relations of the husband and wife become intolerable where mutual understanding and respect leave? Whether it is possible to solve problems in the relations with the husband and to live happily how a few years ago? On these questions we will try to give answers in this material.
How to update the relations with the husband?
For a start it is necessary to analyze a situation in general and to try to understand in what – the dissonance reason. The discontent with traits of character of each other is very frequent reason of quarrels. There are several types of men which is usually caused by negative emotions in women:
- the quick-tempered men inclined to be nervous, break on the wife and children to shout, fight, knock a fist on a table – such seek to dump only negative emotions, giving the negative to the family;
- the malicious men humiliating the wives – such often choose in the spouses of women with the underestimated self-assessment;
- ladies' men – make advances to your girlfriends, the colleagues, is frequent even the having novels on the party.
According to psychologists, with any man it is possible to find a common language and to get on somehow, but to here change nature, character, men's psychology in the relations it is possible not for everyone. Nevertheless, if you love the husband, want to live with him, then to improve the relations with the husband quite really.
The main thing that you have to make – to cease to take offense, to react brightly to offenses, cavils, jealousy or flirting with other young ladies. It is possible to try quietly, to talk kindly to the husband, to explain to him what does not suit you in his behavior, to tell why. Your assurances of love, devotion and desire to work on the relations have to work. Begin with small – agree that the spouse will modify concrete line of conduct – for example, will not raise on you the voice in the evenings, to carp at a disorder or food quality. Fine the husband "comic" penalties if he violates rules.
How to restore and improve the relations with the husband?
First of all you have to change, for certain and you the behavior in something provoke it. There are several recommendations how to improve the relations with the husband:
- You praise the spouse, especially at friends, relatives more often, he will be grateful to you for it.
- Laughter – fine stresses medicine. You find more often situations at which it is possible to laugh together, even you treat problematic issues with humour.
- Having seen a gloomy look of darling, sincerely smile to it, take by hand, gently kiss – it most often helps to relieve the tension.
- Start over again as before marriage to spend more time together – you go to the cinema, walk near the moon in the evenings, leave on the nature for the weekend.
- Try to touch more often narrowed – only ten gentle touches a day will help to revitalize the atmosphere in family.
- Please it – a gift, a favourite dish, massage.
- Make the list of what precisely is pleasant to you in the partner, focus the attention on these qualities.
- Make what your husband from you waits long ago for and what only you know two about – in a bed, certainly.
- Sometimes it is necessary just to leave the husband alone – not to touch him, not to ask on work and problems, not to bother with requests. He has the right for the affairs, personal space and silence too.
If you execute at least a half of these recommendations within the next 72 hours, then the relations with the husband for certain will become warmer, the fast result is almost guaranteed. The psychology of the relations of the husband and wife is an also emotional balance in family. If the relations with the husband, then, perhaps deteriorated, just the emotional harmony is broken. Our recommendations are just designed to correct a situation. But if nothing helps, the spouse does not intend to improve, gives a hostile reception to your initiative and with aggression if the bed is cold long ago, and "the good moments" in intimate relations were not many months, think – whether you want to live so all life?
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