Treason of the husband – serious test for the woman. Not everyone can endure treachery of darling. In most cases marriage breaks up. But if you could forgive the spouse and gave him a chance of correction, then it is necessary to go towards the aim surely. To build the relations further, it is necessary to forgive the husband from the heart and to believe sincerely in his repentance.
Instruction
1. The first and most important governed for restoration of the harmonious relations – never remember to the husband his awful mistake. If you found forces to forgive him, then try to erase its treason from memory. Otherwise, you will torment also yourself and his constant reminders on it. Never mention about treason in a quarrel, it was not kind of offensive for you.
2. Try to construct your relations on trust. Sincerely talk with each other. If someone has claims, honestly tell about it. Tell that it is not pleasant to you that does not suit that you wanted to change. The openness of your thoughts before each other will help to understand tension, the conflicts and secret offenses at each other.
3. Try to take a detached view of yourself honestly. Whether you did everything correctly before treason of your husband. Very often husbands seek love and understanding elsewhere when they do not receive this house. Maybe you should not saw so often the husband for the dishes which are not washed for itself, or a disorder on a desktop. It is important to understand that it is very difficult to change the person reproaches and remarks, it will cause only anger and irritation.
4. The community of interests is the important key to happy marriage. Very difficult to people to find a common language if connects nothing them. Talk to the husband about the new project at work, discuss together the new book or the movie. Tell it about the favourite business. It is important to husband to know that the wife is interested in his affairs, his occupations are interesting to her.
5. Try to spend more time together. Even at strong employment you find several minutes to ask each other on work, on health, on plans for the weekend. The kind smile, a tender look, gentle touch will lighten the mood and will give to confidence for the whole day. Let your house will become the cozy and quiet mooring where your husband will hurry after work. Let him know that the house it is waited by the kind and loving spouse.