It is often possible to notice that after a while once cordial and sincere relations between the husband and the wife pass into a stage of mutual reproaches. It, of course, strongly upsets both, but it seems to wives that the husband has to meet halfway and take the first step. However it is to the best not so difficult to wife to improve a situation.
Effectively to improve the relations with own husband? it is necessary to understand that he very much needs your support and recognition, namely, he needs to receive from you admiration, a praise and gratitude. Therefore begin with the fact that daily sincerely make the following actions:
1. Not less once a day sincerely and deservedly you praise the husband - find for what. Let for you it is the trifle which is not costing attention, for it it can be the real feat or though a small, but necessary step to changes to the best. Do not stand aside - note his efforts attention and a praise.
2. Not less once a day you thank the muzhaz what it does personally for you, for family and/or for society. So you will show it its importance and need, show due respect for its affairs and merits. Whatever it was, he is responsible in areas of material security of family, its protection and the management of family. Even if your husband earns less, than you, he all the same deserves gratitude that he goes every day to work, carrying out the direct duties in relation to family whereas the wife has no direct duty to material security of family.
3. Every day sincerely admire male qualities of your husband: its strong character, well-muscled body, successful decisions, achievements. It will give it forces and self-confidence.
4. Create the diary in which describe your relations before implementation of these recommendations and continue to describe weekly in it your relations, noting the happening changes.
5. Daily note gratitude and admiration in the diary how many times you expressed to the husband a praise, - make the separate table for a month that it was convenient to keep track of dynamics. Also note its reaction to your actions.
6. In a month carry out the comparative analysis of the very first and last record about your relations and draw conclusions on the behavior.