Even in the happiest and strong marriage the conflicts and misunderstanding arise time. Some of them can alienate so spouses from each other that reconciliation will seem impossible. In such situation a lot of things depend on the man.
Instruction
1. Try to communicate more. First it can be very not simply, especially if problems in the relations are observed long ago. For a start, coming in the evening home after work, be interested in how passed at the spouse day, be ready to listen. Be not upset if first she is not talkative. If earlier you did not show interest in similar things, now for her it is unusual. If she is not adjusted to share the feelings, make it you, having told about the lived day.
2. You appreciate it. Notice what it does on the house, you praise for it. Do not forget to thank for a tasty dinner, etc. Do not think that in it there is no need only because she does not thank you for the fact that you work for the family benefit.
3. To it be attentive. The woman quite often carries out many duties and at work, and at home. She can ail and experience emotional difficulties. Try to notice it. Instead of showing indignation on the fact that she did not make something, try to execute it for her. If you see that to the wife it is bad, allow it to have a rest, and make necessary work. She will not be able to remain indifferent to such participation.
4. Suggest to discuss problems. If not to do it, they will gradually collect and oppress. Agree that before going to bed, you will share validly and softly how your feelings were touched during the day. But you say only that noteworthily and be not obsessed with trifles.
5. Express love touches. Though words are important for women, gentle expressions of feelings are necessary too. Embrace her, kiss, carefully touch that she felt safe and it is sure. It is so important for some women that they cannot find any peace if the husband does not satisfy their need for touches.
6. You apologize for mistakes. Some men never apologize because they consider it humiliation. But if you recognize that you were wrong, then it will ennoble you in the opinion of the wife, and from it her respect for you will only increase.